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I feel the rewarding effects of parenting.

I feel the rewarding effects of parenting.

 

Parenting is a blessing for innumerable reasons. Watching my children grow up to be happy, secure, and responsible adults is one of the most rewarding experiences in the world. I press on during difficult times, knowing that my perseverance is producing people who are changing the world.

 

At times, I feel exhausted after serving my family. But even if my children are too young to express gratitude, I know I am appreciated. Each hug and kiss I receive from my children communicates love and thankfulness for who I am.

 

I allow each embrace to mean something deep to me. Even when I feel frustrated, I take time to enjoy my children’s affection because it is a source of inner peace. Regardless of the financial and emotional challenges, the love of my children makes every sacrifice worthwhile.

 

To feel the rewarding effects of parenting, I rid my thoughts and speech of complaints. Sure, things may not always be perfect. But there is always something uplifting that is worth focusing on.

 

By centering my attention on the positive, I feel happy and project happiness to my children. I zoom in on the important things and brush aside mundane nuisances.

 

Today, I choose to laugh rather than complain, because life is too short to focus on the negative. I take time to enjoy the sparkle of joy in the eyes of my children and listen to the dreams growing in their hearts.

 

Self-Reflection Questions:

 

  1. What am I most proud of about my children?
  2. What do I love about being a parent?
  3. Why should I take the time to hug and be affectionate with my children?
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I am a great parent.

I am confident that I am a great parent. I put my children first and ensure that their needs are met. Being a great parent is important to me. I take this responsibility seriously and do my best to grow my parenting skills.

 

I understand my children and what they require in order to flourish. I know that every child is an individual with individual needs.

 

I pride myself on being a good communicator. I speak regularly with my children in a meaningful way. I know what is going on in my children’s lives. I know their hopes and fears.

 

My children know they can speak to me about anything. We have an open and loving relationship.

 

I avoid embarrassing my children. I am a parent that my children can be proud to have by their side. I am pleasant and polite to my children’s friends.

 

I teach my children what they need to know in order to be successful. I set appropriate boundaries and have reasonable expectations for their behavior. My children are well-behaved.

 

Today, parenting is my top priority. I am spending time with my children and enjoying myself. I plan on laughing and loving during my time with my children. I am doing everything in my power to be a great parent.

Self-Reflection Questions:

 

  1. What did my parents do well? What did my parents do poorly? What can I learn from my parents?
  2. What can I do right now to enhance my relationship with my children?
  3. What do I need to stop doing as a parent? What are my parenting flaws and mistakes?